[chore] Simplify the OTEL setup (#4110)

# Description

This simplifies our OTEL setup by:

* Getting rid of some deprecated things.
* Using `autoexport` and letting things get configured by the `OTEL_` environment variables.
* Removing all the unnecessary config options.

## Checklist

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- [x] I/we have read the [GoToSocial contribution guidelines](https://codeberg.org/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/src/branch/main/CONTRIBUTING.md).
- [x] I/we have discussed the proposed changes already, either in an issue on the repository, or in the Matrix chat.
- [x] I/we have not leveraged AI to create the proposed changes.
- [x] I/we have performed a self-review of added code.
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- [ ] I/we have commented the added code, particularly in hard-to-understand areas.
- [x] I/we have made any necessary changes to documentation.
- [ ] I/we have added tests that cover new code.
- [x] I/we have run tests and they pass locally with the changes.
- [x] I/we have run `go fmt ./...` and `golangci-lint run`.

Reviewed-on: https://codeberg.org/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/pulls/4110
Reviewed-by: tobi <kipvandenbos@noreply.codeberg.org>
Co-authored-by: Daenney <daenney@noreply.codeberg.org>
Co-committed-by: Daenney <daenney@noreply.codeberg.org>

testrig/config.go

@@ -154,13 +154,8 @@ func testDefaults() config.Configuration {
 		SMTPFrom:               "GoToSocial",
 		SMTPDiscloseRecipients: false,
 
-		TracingEnabled:           false,
-		TracingEndpoint:          "localhost:4317",
-		TracingTransport:         "grpc",
-		TracingInsecureTransport: true,
-
-		MetricsEnabled:     true,
-		MetricsAuthEnabled: false,
+		TracingEnabled: false,
+		MetricsEnabled: false,
 
 		SyslogEnabled:  false,
 		SyslogProtocol: "udp",