[chore] update otel libraries (#3740)

* chore: update otel dependencies

* refactor: combine tracing & metrics in observability package

* chore: update example tracing compose file

vendor/google.golang.org/grpc/internal/transport/controlbuf.go

@@ -1033,10 +1033,3 @@ func (l *loopyWriter) processData() (bool, error) {
 	}
 	return false, nil
 }
-
-func min(a, b int) int {
-	if a < b {
-		return a
-	}
-	return b
-}