[chore] Update WASM go-sqlite3 to v0.16.1 (#2976)

This includes support for journal mode set to WAL on the BSDs.

Relates to: #1753, #2962

vendor/github.com/ncruces/go-sqlite3/internal/alloc/alloc_other.go

@@ -0,0 +1,9 @@
+//go:build !(unix || windows) || sqlite3_nosys
+
+package alloc
+
+import "github.com/tetratelabs/wazero/experimental"
+
+func Virtual(cap, max uint64) experimental.LinearMemory {
+	return Slice(cap, max)
+}