[chore] Update bun / sqlite versions; update gtsmodels (#754)

* upstep bun and sqlite versions

* allow specific columns to be updated in the db

* only update necessary columns for user

* bit tidier

* only update necessary fields of media_attachment

* only update relevant instance fields

* update tests

* update only specific account columns

* use bool pointers on gtsmodels
includes attachment, status, account, user

* update columns more selectively

* test all default fields on new account insert

* updating remaining bools on gtsmodels

* initialize pointer fields when extracting AP emoji

* copy bools properly

* add copyBoolPtr convenience function + test it

* initialize false bool ptrs a bit more neatly

internal/validate/mediaattachment_test.go

@@ -26,6 +26,7 @@ import (
 	"github.com/stretchr/testify/suite"
 	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/internal/gtsmodel"
 	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/internal/validate"
+	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/testrig"
 )
 
 func happyMediaAttachment() *gtsmodel.MediaAttachment {
@@ -97,8 +98,8 @@ func happyMediaAttachment() *gtsmodel.MediaAttachment {
 			URL:         "http://localhost:8080/fileserver/01F8MH17FWEB39HZJ76B6VXSKF/attachment/small/01F8MH6NEM8D7527KZAECTCR76.jpeg",
 			RemoteURL:   "",
 		},
-		Avatar: false,
-		Header: false,
+		Avatar: testrig.FalseBool(),
+		Header: testrig.FalseBool(),
 	}
 }