[chore] Update bun / sqlite versions; update gtsmodels (#754)

* upstep bun and sqlite versions

* allow specific columns to be updated in the db

* only update necessary columns for user

* bit tidier

* only update necessary fields of media_attachment

* only update relevant instance fields

* update tests

* update only specific account columns

* use bool pointers on gtsmodels
includes attachment, status, account, user

* update columns more selectively

* test all default fields on new account insert

* updating remaining bools on gtsmodels

* initialize pointer fields when extracting AP emoji

* copy bools properly

* add copyBoolPtr convenience function + test it

* initialize false bool ptrs a bit more neatly

internal/processing/user/changepassword.go

@@ -20,6 +20,7 @@ package user
 
 import (
 	"context"
+	"time"
 
 	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/internal/gtserror"
 	"github.com/superseriousbusiness/gotosocial/internal/gtsmodel"
@@ -42,7 +43,9 @@ func (p *processor) ChangePassword(ctx context.Context, user *gtsmodel.User, old
 	}
 
 	user.EncryptedPassword = string(newPasswordHash)
-	if err := p.db.UpdateByPrimaryKey(ctx, user); err != nil {
+	user.UpdatedAt = time.Now()
+
+	if err := p.db.UpdateByPrimaryKey(ctx, user, "encrypted_password", "updated_at"); err != nil {
 		return gtserror.NewErrorInternalError(err, "database error")
 	}