[chore] Update bun / sqlite versions; update gtsmodels (#754)

* upstep bun and sqlite versions

* allow specific columns to be updated in the db

* only update necessary columns for user

* bit tidier

* only update necessary fields of media_attachment

* only update relevant instance fields

* update tests

* update only specific account columns

* use bool pointers on gtsmodels
includes attachment, status, account, user

* update columns more selectively

* test all default fields on new account insert

* updating remaining bools on gtsmodels

* initialize pointer fields when extracting AP emoji

* copy bools properly

* add copyBoolPtr convenience function + test it

* initialize false bool ptrs a bit more neatly

internal/processing/fromfederator.go

@@ -259,7 +259,7 @@ func (p *processor) processCreateFollowRequestFromFederator(ctx context.Context,
 		followRequest.TargetAccount = a
 	}
 
-	if followRequest.TargetAccount.Locked {
+	if *followRequest.TargetAccount.Locked {
 		// if the account is locked just notify the follow request and nothing else
 		return p.notifyFollowRequest(ctx, followRequest)
 	}