[chore] Update bun / sqlite versions; update gtsmodels (#754)

* upstep bun and sqlite versions

* allow specific columns to be updated in the db

* only update necessary columns for user

* bit tidier

* only update necessary fields of media_attachment

* only update relevant instance fields

* update tests

* update only specific account columns

* use bool pointers on gtsmodels
includes attachment, status, account, user

* update columns more selectively

* test all default fields on new account insert

* updating remaining bools on gtsmodels

* initialize pointer fields when extracting AP emoji

* copy bools properly

* add copyBoolPtr convenience function + test it

* initialize false bool ptrs a bit more neatly

internal/db/bundb/basic.go

@@ -94,10 +94,11 @@ func (b *basicDB) DeleteWhere(ctx context.Context, where []db.Where, i interface
 	return b.conn.ProcessError(err)
 }
 
-func (b *basicDB) UpdateByPrimaryKey(ctx context.Context, i interface{}) db.Error {
+func (b *basicDB) UpdateByPrimaryKey(ctx context.Context, i interface{}, columns ...string) db.Error {
 	q := b.conn.
 		NewUpdate().
 		Model(i).
+		Column(columns...).
 		WherePK()
 
 	_, err := q.Exec(ctx)