[chore] Update bun / sqlite versions; update gtsmodels (#754)

* upstep bun and sqlite versions

* allow specific columns to be updated in the db

* only update necessary columns for user

* bit tidier

* only update necessary fields of media_attachment

* only update relevant instance fields

* update tests

* update only specific account columns

* use bool pointers on gtsmodels
includes attachment, status, account, user

* update columns more selectively

* test all default fields on new account insert

* updating remaining bools on gtsmodels

* initialize pointer fields when extracting AP emoji

* copy bools properly

* add copyBoolPtr convenience function + test it

* initialize false bool ptrs a bit more neatly

internal/api/s2s/user/inboxpost_test.go

@@ -469,8 +469,8 @@ func (suite *InboxPostTestSuite) TestPostDelete() {
 	suite.Empty(dbAccount.HeaderRemoteURL)
 	suite.Empty(dbAccount.Reason)
 	suite.Empty(dbAccount.Fields)
-	suite.True(dbAccount.HideCollections)
-	suite.False(dbAccount.Discoverable)
+	suite.True(*dbAccount.HideCollections)
+	suite.False(*dbAccount.Discoverable)
 	suite.WithinDuration(time.Now(), dbAccount.SuspendedAt, 30*time.Second)
 	suite.Equal(dbAccount.ID, dbAccount.SuspensionOrigin)
 }