[chore] Standardize database queries, use bun.Ident() properly (#886)

* use bun.Ident for user queries

* use bun.Ident for account queries

* use bun.Ident for media queries

* add DeleteAccount func

* remove CaseInsensitive in Where+use Ident ipv Safe

* update admin db

* update domain, use ident

* update emoji, use ident

* update instance queries, use bun.Ident

* fix media

* update mentions, use bun ident

* update relationship + tests

* use tableexpr

* add test follows to bun db test suite

* update notifications

* updatebyprimarykey => updatebyid

* fix session

* prefer explicit ID to pk

* fix little fucky wucky

* remove workaround

* use proper db func for attachment selection

* update status db

* add m2m entries in test rig

* fix up timeline

* go fmt

* fix status put issue

* update GetAccountStatuses

internal/cache/account.go

@@ -101,6 +101,11 @@ func (c *AccountCache) Put(account *gtsmodel.Account) {
 	c.cache.Set(account.ID, copyAccount(account))
 }
 
+// Invalidate removes (invalidates) one account from the cache by its ID.
+func (c *AccountCache) Invalidate(id string) {
+	c.cache.Invalidate(id)
+}
+
 // copyAccount performs a surface-level copy of account, only keeping attached IDs intact, not the objects.
 // due to all the data being copied being 99% primitive types or strings (which are immutable and passed by ptr)
 // this should be a relatively cheap process